Our Children

Children as we see are thoughtful creative and acquiescent.They possess inspiring energy but lack of experience generally makes them behave childlike. Parents should understand it and allow time so that gradually children receive experience and synchronize with their thought and system. Generally we feel needy to communicate with children during the moments of anger or happiness. In these situations a child is unable to process the information correctly thus further communication with him fails and never serves the purpose of communication.
The more we manage to express with emotion and care children respond to it and learn that things unsaid should be acknowledged and believed. In fact this is a kind of bond which makes a family or relation. Children are highly motivated by close and loving relations within the family.
It is taught that compromise and have fun together is general rule. This type of family culture allows children to attract friends in their life who appreciate their social skills and create a win win experience of life. Children should clearly understand that rules in life are to be strictly followed. It takes time and energy to follow and abide by rules but it is worth because most of the rules if followed reduce every type of conflict and what we do for someone, strengthen the bond and relations are built.
Kids should be encouraged to identify and express their underlying emotions, expression of likes and dislikes and listen them with sensitivity.