Tuesday, April 16, 2013

CO-LIVING


       Everyone in household must respect the rights and feelings of everyone else in the family. Whether your little sister or grand old mother listen is what each family member has to say without interrupting. Discuses the issues in friendly ways.
            Respect of privacy and own space is very important, knock & wait for permission before entering in the room. Don't go through Else's desk, box or other possessions without permission. One should never read letter of others or diary etc. Don't discuss petty affair of family with outsiders. Share the utilities like T.V., VCR, Tapes, cupboard etc and ensure to please clean your bit as well.

On Success

        Success is realisation of ideals.There are definite trends in the personality of a successful people are always focused in their approach and clear in perception.They very clearly know their goals of life and device its components clearly setting the objectives.For success and achievement of goals one has to make single minded effort in well thought and positive direction.It is done on day to day basis so that procrastination, losses and hassles are avoided.It is in form of hour to hour programme which minimises wastage of time and energy.
        Those who live with flow of current of life passively generally fall defensive in the perspective of life and society.If such people at all achieve anything that is spillover are the achievements left by planned achievers who think it unimportant or less important.
Indian scriptures have narrated repeatedly that the outer world of human being is reflection of their inner things.It is practically seen that we remain thinking most of the times.It is also true that unhappy people most of the times think of problems and people who to blame is their priority of analysis.At the contrary happy people always converse on what they intensely desire; this starts a journey towards solution, mitigation of trouble and service to humanity.

Chain Reaction

'How' of creation of the world is approximately devised and explained by science and religions.It is not certain 'Who' did it, but it is more than certain that world has been created for a very specified and noble purpose.
It is corollary of this theory that none in this world is entitled to be angry.Each time we are angry, we have to justify our anger which creates a chain reaction of reasons of negative feeling.The moment we stop justifying we feel that a great scope of positivity has come into practise and we start marching in positive direction.For unnecessary rationalization and justification we also search reasons and explanations which sound good, this endlessly generates negativity and deviations.Subject and object both in such cases suffer because they reach far away from original and natural status.
This chattering can be closed by concentrating on the fact that people make opinion about us affected and influenced by their own problems.Such opinion or criticism should never baffle us.

Impact of Thoughts

Those who devote most of their time in thinking and changing environment, become leaders, non leaders live defensively and never come out of day to day of life.It is said that one only becomes whatever he thinks.If you think you are weak, you become weak; if you think you are yourselves strong, you become strong in due course of time.
Positive thinking and welfare oriented thoughts for masses or people make secretion of good juices in the endocrine system and brain which are good for general health and longevity.Negative thoughts secret something harmful which dooms health and vital energy of a person.Generally we find that great and positive people remain happier and live longer in the world.