CO-LIVING

       Everyone in household must respect the rights and feelings of everyone else in the family. Whether your little sister or grand old mother listen is what each family member has to say without interrupting. Discuses the issues in friendly ways.

            Respect of privacy and own space is very important, knock & wait for permission before entering in the room. Don't go through Else's desk, box or other possessions without permission. One should never read letter of others or diary etc. Don't discuss petty affair of family with outsiders. Share the utilities like T.V., VCR, Tapes, cupboard etc and ensure to please clean your bit as well.

On Success

        Success is realisation of ideals.There are definite trends in the personality of a successful people are always focused in their approach and clear in perception.They very clearly know their goals of life and device its components clearly setting the objectives.For success and achievement of goals one has to make single minded effort in well thought and positive direction.It is done on day to day basis so that procrastination, losses and hassles are avoided.It is in form of hour to hour programme which minimises wastage of time and energy.

        Those who live with flow of current of life passively generally fall defensive in the perspective of life and society.If such people at all achieve anything that is spillover are the achievements left by planned achievers who think it unimportant or less important.

Indian scriptures have narrated repeatedly that the outer world of human being is reflection of their inner things.It is practically seen that we remain thinking most of the times.It is also true that unhappy people most of the times think of problems and people who to blame is their priority of analysis.At the contrary happy people always converse on what they intensely desire; this starts a journey towards solution, mitigation of trouble and service to humanity.

Chain Reaction

'How' of creation of the world is approximately devised and explained by science and religions.It is not certain 'Who' did it, but it is more than certain that world has been created for a very specified and noble purpose.
It is corollary of this theory that none in this world is entitled to be angry.Each time we are angry, we have to justify our anger which creates a chain reaction of reasons of negative feeling.The moment we stop justifying we feel that a great scope of positivity has come into practise and we start marching in positive direction.For unnecessary rationalization and justification we also search reasons and explanations which sound good, this endlessly generates negativity and deviations.Subject and object both in such cases suffer because they reach far away from original and natural status.
This chattering can be closed by concentrating on the fact that people make opinion about us affected and influenced by their own problems.Such opinion or criticism should never baffle us.

Impact of Thoughts

Those who devote most of their time in thinking and changing environment, become leaders, non leaders live defensively and never come out of day to day of life.It is said that one only becomes whatever he thinks.If you think you are weak, you become weak; if you think you are yourselves strong, you become strong in due course of time.
Positive thinking and welfare oriented thoughts for masses or people make secretion of good juices in the endocrine system and brain which are good for general health and longevity.Negative thoughts secret something harmful which dooms health and vital energy of a person.Generally we find that great and positive people remain happier and live longer in the world.

Live Long

To some extent inconvenient type of living in which there are lesser equipments of comfort is directly connected with our health and longer living. Long living people invariably live in strong family where natural trust and support is there. One has to find ways to remain physically active and manage to take a break in short intervals so that compulsory recharging of system and energy is naturally managed. One should never overeat and as far as possible less carbohydrate and fat diet is advised with maximum natural products and fruits etc.

Centenarians are   trusting and trustworthy and they have faith in some religion, this is one very common thing with most of them. They generally have more social support and a vast network of friends and people around them.

TRANSFORMATION - I

Science has discovered universe with more than hundred billion galaxies. There are more than one hundred billion stars in each galaxy. We see that universe is greater and more magnificent than every imagination and possible beliefs. It gives a glimpses of limitation of our mind and thinking mechanism. Doctors say 80% of diseases are psychosomatic. It is also proved by medical science that low carbohydrate diet for more than low fat diet improves cardiac system and reduces risk. Low carbohydrate diet reduces BP, improves HDL, LDL ratio and makes lipid profile better. There are no sure precautions and dull proof practices.

          If we live for God everything else will automatically follow. By simply meditating and offering fruits of our action to God, we start getting in rhyme with divine power and higher guidance's naturally start coming to us.

TRANSFORMATION - II

We should make best possible use of what we have. Self is to be understood analysed and transformed into self respect. Past experience and grandeur should be used as a lesson to learn. Present is to be oriented for maximum possible positively. We have to link our role with creativity and knowledge should be applied in very positive manner and all our actions should be respectful to others in the society and good to all living being.  

This transformation will gradually alter all systems of body and mind because every thing is changed by determination and all these systems are run by tacit commitments which will be purified by this transformation. It will lead to happiness, purity, love and peace.