Our Children

Children as we see are thoughtful creative and acquiescent.They possess inspiring energy but lack of experience generally makes them behave childlike. Parents should understand it and allow time so that gradually children receive experience and synchronize with their thought and system. Generally we feel needy to communicate with children during the moments of anger or happiness. In these situations a child is unable to process the information correctly thus further communication with him fails and never serves the purpose of communication.
The more we manage to express with emotion and care children respond to it and learn that things unsaid should be acknowledged and believed. In fact this is a kind of bond which makes a family or relation. Children are highly motivated by close and loving relations within the family.
It is taught that compromise and have fun together is general rule. This type of family culture allows children to attract friends in their life who appreciate their social skills and create a win win experience of life. Children should clearly understand that rules in life are to be strictly followed. It takes time and energy to follow and abide by rules but it is worth because most of the rules if followed reduce every type of conflict and what we do for someone, strengthen the bond and relations are built.
Kids should be encouraged to identify and express their underlying emotions, expression of likes and dislikes and listen them with sensitivity.

Our Body

Our health and state of body is a non verbal communication and instant impression.One should take care of body because it is necessary for the confidence of wellness and feeling of well being.Good health makes us enthusiastic and vibrant.It keeps us energised in our day today life in this world.
Simple method to take care of health is to avoid accumulation of toxins which can be reduced and avoided simply by burning calorie and reduction of intake.Regular exercise is necessary because it reduces weight improves oxidation improving and strengthening the cardiovascular and circulatory system.
Managing our body and mind we can enhance the potential.Thoughtful consideration on breathing and relaxation can do wonders.Diet control and exercise are most important priorities.Apart from being a great expression and statement, healthy body is a recurring source of confidence and wellness.

Only Success

How to succeed is a question which comes to every mind at a particular juncture of life.Successful completion of a work or achieving something we want is called 'success'.To have secured future economically can be a small objective and realisation of ultimate reality is a big objective.Success is a must to mitigate our worries, pessimistic life and fulfill our requirements, it establishes our identity, recognition and honour in the society.

Choose to react

Good people honour human and good behaviour.More you honour a good book more you extract benefit out of it.The benefit is not caused by some mystry or spiritual art, it is simply because of faith which is partial enlightment and samadhi in itself.Every moment of faith is a diversion from physical world.The world is never according to the demands of our ego.
Sometimes we don't get situation, people and times of our choice, we become indignate but we can always choose how we react.If we are complaining for everything and go ofter self pity only, more unhappiness and stress is there.we can also go for dialogue and focus on aspects of performance etc.
Constant gratitude and contentnment make people cool and contented,they gradually cope better with nature and society.

Stay Good

You are strong when you hold your backbone in your hand and smile even in most grief-stricken conditions of life.Brave people overcome their own fear and help others to fight fear in their lives.If we are honest human being , every hope of future is more important than bad experiences of past or a mistake of yesterday.The minimum meaning of liberty is our own control on ourselves and restraining ourselves to control others or even to interfere in their matters.
Unless we give so much time and energy to our own improvement that we have no time to criticize others and we are not equally enthusiastic about success of all others, we are not optimistic at all.Let us become large enough so that no worries can reach us and nothing can disturb the peace of our mind.

Urbanization Today

Only in India 38000 people migrate from villages to cities everyday. This is going to be 140 million by 2020 and 700 million 2050. Urbanization in the world is driven by organic population growth, compounded by migration from villages. Explosive growth of cities through out the World in the last decade of twentieth Century has created a huge strain on the physical infrastructure of all the cities and suburbs. Power shortage, mismanagement of monsoon deluges, traffic system, population explosion, pollution, congestion, unemployment , poor housing and water supply,solid waste management and poor service delivery affects in varying degrees the life of people in all the cities.

Breaking The Crust

From the deep core of our life we are only love inside, but, worldly behaviour is there outside. This crust of behaviour is finite and unreal, unpredictable and fake. Life in fact is, freedom. Unlimited freedom is like a current from our soul. We see that breathe goes in to the body of our flesh with an intense fervor. This fervor is such intense that we mistake the effect for a cause and simply imagine that body has life and it is breathing before us.

We are conscious when we feel our body and are aware of breathing. Even the temporary separation from breathing and body awareness is a subconscious stage like sleep. The lesson is to be free from delusion that our existence depends on body or breathing apparatus. It is a freedom to know and perceive it, this is called super consciousness. It is real life and truthful living. It is enlightenment in spiritual sense. It is a natural start of a journey which takes care of everything by itself.